Let Go

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.

-- Anon

Ever had something that you just wanted to hold on tightly to but had to let go?

Ever held on so hard that letting go seemed impossible?

Ever thought of reaching something and then holding on to it for the rest of your life?

Ever thought of finally achieving what you have dreamed of all this while?

Ever found the one where you really loved and didn't want to let her go?


Even if you didn't want to, but had to. Would you let go?

Would you sacrifice it all and let go?

Would you forget after you have let go?

Will you remember what you let go?

Will you regret?

Will you forgive?

Will you hate?


Or....


Would you sacrifice it all, just to hold on?

Will you forget it all and hold on?

Will you regret?

Will you hate yourself for it?



Will you let go, or hold on even tighter?





My answer;

I'll hold on by letting go. Because when you finally get it back, it'll be worth more than it ever was.



Hold on by letting go.

The Legend

From the movie "The Guardian";

What makes a legend?
Is it what someone does when they are alive?
Or how they are remembered when they are gone?

The question here is this; how do you want to be remembered?

Would you prefer to be remembered when you are still alive?

Or...would you prefer to be remembered after you are gone?




Personally, I choose to be remembered after I'm gone.

Why?

When I'm alive, I don't need to be remembered. I can make an impact in people's lives any day.

However...

When I'm gone, I wanna be remembered because that's when I can't be around physically to make an impact in people's lives.



In this world, you are made eternal in two ways;

1) In writing. Songs, poems, stories...etc.

2) In memory. You live on in the hearts and minds of those who once knew you and who you once made an impact in their lives.



Being a legend means doing incredible things while you are alive and being remembered for those feats when you are gone.


Live to be a legend. A good one.

Trust

There is a saying;

Trust is a must in a relationship

Indeed, when you are in a relationship, you have to trust the person you are with.

Whatever he/she does.

Where, when, with whom....everything.

If you can do that, you will have a very strong and steady relationship.


BUT.....


What if the person that you do not trust is not your partner, but yourself?

You trust your partner 100%.

But you trust yourself 20%...

How will that affect the relationship?

Give it some thought.

The answer is for you to know, and for you to do something about if it's not something nice.